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Sunday, June 04, 2006

The Stare

Guys are not allowed to look at the girls for more than 5 seconds, otherwise it could be thought as rowdy, outrageous and lecherous. Have you ever thought, what is there in the stare?

Well, considering the x-ray aspect of male-eyes, it would definitely be a problem for any girl to be looked upon by a guy for more than 5 seconds. But is this true that all the staring eyes which look at the girls are only x-ray eyes..defining the curves if it is not already defined by their skin tight jeans and T-shirts? May be or may not be. It depends what is there in the guy's mind at the moment...and Please mind this is very subjective..Well, I think, I need not mention more.

Most of the times in your life you must have experienced this strange feeling of being looked upon by the people..sometimes with a feeling of love, sometimes with hatred, sometimes with a laugh at your folly and sometimes just with a sweet mischief. But let me tell you a thing, directly looking into the eyes is symbolic of "Kiss me on the lips" statement. A defined explicit love for the stared one by the starer..and usually stands for both male and female. Of course this statement doesnt hold, when this eye-to-eye-stare is between the same sex.

Definitely, Girls need to know that when a boy stares at a girl, it is necessarily not means that it is a lecherous eye. Some girls are beautiful and they can make the day of a person...just by their beautiful smile or by glittering eyes.(unless he considers it as signal for something else.)

The beauty is God's cursive handwriting. We must admire it. Lucky are those who got it.. but then they shouldnt ever be proud of it. I don’t like that proud who thinks that since a guy just admired her beauty, she's the best in the world and the guy is in love with her or whatever.'s a catch.. a girl goes again and again in front of the mirror to beautify herself..(for what, I ask?)..So that the by passers admire her beauty and they stare at her..And when they do, when they admire their god's gift.. what happens? In return the by passers get the opinion of "low-self-esteem" for themselves and a dirty frosty stare from them.....which distorts their magnificent beauty forever



  • At 6/05/2006 09:40:00 AM, Blogger D said…

    Nishu Sir....thts a fabulous explanation. Full marks to you. But one question, wouldn't it be wise, if a girl says "Thank You"....when we stare, after all that's the Victorian

  • At 6/05/2006 09:36:00 PM, Blogger Nishu said…

    Yes D, indeed some of them thank us..
    but not vocal,
    society never permits it..hence
    the smile. (^_^)

  • At 6/07/2006 05:08:00 AM, Blogger Gaurav said…

    hehe.. nice one..
    I think the govt should consider a "Right to See" :)

    Also why is a girl so concious of someone looking at her?? can somebody explain???

    God made beautiful and not so beautiful ppl so that we could enjoy beauty.. Tell me if everyone around u were beautiful then wouldnt life be really boring??

  • At 6/07/2006 07:38:00 AM, Blogger nishu said…

    Seriously man its just that I look at them its like a bad sin which i have crashed on to us .not our world anymore guys

  • At 6/10/2006 01:41:00 AM, Anonymous Me.. said…

    cool introspection man.. but then there are some times.. when us men DO look at girls..the way girls think we look at them.. i hope u know what im sayin here..

  • At 6/11/2006 09:51:00 AM, Anonymous K said…

    Agreed with you 100%. The female tribe spend hours making themselves look more beautiful. And when we do stare at them, they call us emn with no morals. And when we do not give them the stare, they call us gay. what sadistic thinking is this?

    Yes, beauty can make a day of any person and is god's way of saying that no matter how bad things get, there is something beautiful in our world worth living for. There is no joy like staring into the eyes of you partner and feeling intense love, forgetting all the world's sorrow, pain and tension. Good post!

  • At 6/14/2006 10:30:00 PM, Blogger mindRAGA said…

    nice observation. but girls love being stared at. no explaination needs to be given. period.

  • At 6/21/2006 05:30:00 AM, Blogger Arz000n said…

    Enough of staring write something too :)

  • At 6/25/2006 12:40:00 AM, Blogger kandykane said…

    nice read.. i think when the staring is 'dirty' 'lechrous' then its definitely not welcome.. just like men have this ability to stare, practically at every woman they come across.. women too have this ability to ascertain the 'kind' of stare they are attracting..

    what i mean is, a loving n non-derogatory stare is okay, but a dirty one will always get a distorted beauty !

  • At 6/26/2006 03:15:00 AM, Blogger Silky Moon said…

    Don't you guys stand in front of mirror and waste your time to look good :P. Why you blame only for galz.......

    Where are you? Leave staring galz and up date you page.

    Waise there is a story "Sargam". :)

  • At 6/27/2006 01:30:00 AM, Blogger Nishu said…

    SM, I was bit busy..will check it soon.


  • At 8/18/2006 06:10:00 AM, Anonymous sahil said…

    just a thought...if 12-15 guys are staring at a girl, hw wud she feel, raped or gang raped?


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